Stop Chasing the Forever Home—It May Not Exist!

For decades, the idea of a “forever home” guided many homebuyers—one perfect place where you could settle in for life. But in today’s market, that mindset is shifting.

The modern homeowner moves every 10 years.

That’s right—according to data trends from the National Association of Realtors (NAR), the average homeowner now moves every 10 years. This is a significant shift from past generations, who typically moved every 6 to 7 years.

So, what changed?

• Rising home prices have made move-up purchases more expensive.
• Interest rate lock-ins are keeping current homeowners in place longer, as they’re reluctant to give up historically low rates.
• Limited inventory—especially in desirable areas—has made it harder to find the “next” perfect home.

As a result, many people are staying in their homes longer, but with a new mindset: permanence isn’t the priority; flexibility is.

Your First Home Doesn’t Have to Be Forever—Just Right for Now

If you're shopping for your first home (or your next one), remember: it doesn’t have to check every box for the next 30 years. It just needs to meet your needs today.

Life changes—and your home can too.

Careers evolve, families grow, hobbies change, and priorities shift. Buying a home that fits your current lifestyle, rather than one designed to fit a distant, idealized future, can be a smart and satisfying choice.

Think of your home as an investment in the present, not an obligation to your future. Whether it’s a starter condo, a townhome close to work, or a suburban space with room to grow, the goal is to buy with intention, not pressure. In today’s market, flexibility is the new forever. And that's a good thing. The focus should be on what fits your life today. Remember: buying a home is a big decision, but it doesn't have to be a permanent one. 

Looking for a home that fits your now? KB Collective is here to help you navigate every step of the journey, from your first purchase to your final destination! A home isn’t necessarily about staying put, it’s about finding the right place for each season of your life.